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Zephyr Martin Craddock wedding plans
From her own meno book
Wedding June 23, 1953
Butterick 4521 A B Wedding grown pattern
(picture in meno book is a tracing of A and B)
Place
- Grant Memorial A.M.E.
- 4017 Drexel Blvd
AT 5 - 5819
Time 7pm
Date June 23, 1950
Reception immeditely after Wedding
- CNDK Club House
- 4441 Drexel Blvd
- phone Ken 6-9868
Preacher Rev Walden
- phone no-3-1344
- address : 6016 St Lawrence
Organist: Miss Lela Hanmer (replace Rosa Scott)
Soloist: Aminita Patterson
Annoncements
Mrs Alyce Martin Meine request the honor of your presents at the marrage of her daughter Zephyr Mae to Mr harry Burton Craddock JR on Friday The Twenty Third of June at Seven o' Clock
- Grant Memorial A.M.E.
- 4017 Drexel
Reception immediately following the ceremony
- C.N.D.F. Club House
- 4441 Drexel
R.S.V.P.
Mailing Dates
Send annoucement to printer Aprill 10, 1950
- may 1, 1950
Mail annoucements June 3, 1950
Stamps 500 @ 3 cent $15.00
Reception
- C.N.D.F. Club House
- 4441 Drexel
- Ken 6-9868
Neccessary Stops
Blood test
Date June 16
place:
- Dr David Johnson
- Dr Bouryer 459 E 43rd st 2nd Floor
- 6252 S Park
- Kenwood 6-3412
- daily except Friday 3-8pm
Marriage Licence June 19 10:00
Wedding rings
- Lebolt & Commpany
- June 17 1950
Rehearsal
Thursday June 22, 7:00 PM
Whats the Bride wear and carries
- White satin wedding dress
- Veil
- White satin slippers
- glovers
- carries flowers
- carries prayer book (optional)
- blue garter
Brides maids
Maid of honor: sister Gwendalyn Monroe
Brides maids
- Murial Campbell
- Mable Craddock
- Corita Bryan
- Dorathy Byrd (replace Doris Burnley)
- Mary Grady
- Bealah Reffells
Brides maids dress
Gwendalyn Monroe | Turquoise
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Muriel Campbell | Pale green
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Mable Craddock | Blue
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Courita Bryan | Pink
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Dorothy Byrd | pale green
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Mary Grady | orchid
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Beulah Reffells | yellow
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glover fingerless glover of same material as dress
head dress off the face hats same color
dress make date fitted March 17 1950
The Bridemaids Luncheon
Place:
- 5942 Calumet
- June 17, 1950
Gift for attendent pearls with compact
Substitutes and Helpers
- Dorathy Byrd
- Geraldine Glover
- Marian Perry
- Antainette Clavier
- Consuela Hendon
- Emelda Littleton
- Marie Hart
- Alice Reffells
- Alyce Monroe
- Betty Thomas
- Jean Bradley
- Charlene Williams
- Aminita Patterson
- Doris Martin
- Ruth Frambro
Ushers
Best man Benjamin Duster
Ushers
- Louis Grady
- Leorand Grady
- Thomas Jenkins
- Herbert Kent
- Lawrene Henderson
- Sel Valentines
Best man wear precisely what the bridegroom wears summer formal.
Groom furnisher ties, glovers, Boutonniere
Bachalor Dinner
- 5166 South Park
- June 16, 1950
Gifts for ushers cuff links
Substitutes and Helpers
- Lawrene Henderson
- Douglas Monroe
- Ray Monroe
- Albert Frambro
- Joseph Martin
- Heliolos Hart
- John Burdetta
- Joe Sheridan
Formation of the Wedding Procession
X X
X X
X X
+ +
+ +
+ +
MH
FG
F B
Key x ushers; + Bridesmaids; MH maid of honor; FG flowergirl; F father of Bride; B Bride
Grouping at the altar
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/ --------------------------- \
/ /| | ALTAR | |\ \
/ / | | | | \ \
/ / ----------------------------- \ \
| | M | | M Minister
| | | |
| | B G | | B Bride; G Groom
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MH BM MH Maid of Honor; BM Best Man
F FG F bride's father; FG flowergirl
X + + X X ushers; + Brides Maids
X + + X
X + + X
Duties of Best Man
- Must see that everything is packed for the journey.
- See to it that the clothes the groom is to "wear away" are put into a special bag to be taken wherever the reception is to be held.
- takes baggage to the station.
- If going by auto, take luggage to garage and see that its is bestowed in the car.
- Must see to it that the groom is dressed and ready early.
- Must be sure to ask for the weddind rings and the clergy man's fee.
- Escort groom to the church.
- Give groom his cane and hat after the ceremory.
- Sees the bride and groom into their car
- Brides car first
- Brides maids
- Bridess - mother and father
- Grooms - mother and father
- nearest member of both families
- all other guest
- Gives fee to clergyman
Procession to the Church
- Brides mother goes alone or taken some brides maids with her, but reserve space for husband.
- Maid of honor, bridesmaids and flower girls
- Bride and her father
Ushers Duties
- The Parents of the bride alway sit in the first pew on the left, facing the church.
- Grooms parents sit in the first pew on the right.
- The first six to 16 pews on either side of the center aisle are marked off with ribbons into a reserved enclosure.
- Family and intimate friends sit in front of the ribbons.
- Usher escorts guest to seat when card is presented to him.
- Ushers show all guest their places.
- Usher always talks to guest.
- deportment should natural - no running or loud talkink
- The moment the entire wedding party is in the church, the door between the vestibule and the church are closed.
- groom mother goes down the aisle on the arm of the head usher, her husband follows.
- The escort the brides mother returns and takes his place in the procession.
- No one should be seated after the entrance of the brides mother is admitted
- Should be at the Church an hour befofore the time for the ceremony.
Amount of flower needed
- Floral decaration of the Church
- Bouquets for the btide and brides maids
- carages
Other things needed
- Ribbon to mark off pews
- White cloth for bride to walk on
- Pew cards for guest sitting with family
- brides book to record gifts
Brides Parents Provide
- Engraved annoucements
- Brides Trousseau
- flower
- solist, any organist, a fee the the sexton
- music for the reception
- motor for the bridal party
- The collation
- Wedding cake
- Punch or fruit cup
- brides gifts to the bridesmaida
- brides gifts to groom
- Photographs to the bridal party
Bridegroom's Expenses
- Engagement ring
- Wedding present to the bride
- His bachelor dinner
- The marriage license
- personal gift to the best man and ushers
- wedding ties, gloves and boutonniere to bes best man and ushers
- a corsage for the bride to wear
- The wedding ring
- clergyman's fee
- From moment the bride and groom start off on the wedding trip, all expenditures become his
- Bridegroom's trousseau
Linen Trousseau
monogram
ZCH
- 12 Pepperell Sheets 90" x 108"
- 12 Pepperell pillow cases 45" x 38.5"
- 2 North Star blankets 80" x 90"
- 6 callauay bath towels 24" x 40"
- 6 callauay hand towels 16" x 28"
- 6 callauay wash cloths
- 1 callauay Bath mat
- 6 pure linen towels 14" x 20"
- 6 pure linen kitchen towels
- irish linen, 9 piece table mat set, service for 4
- 4 table mats
Recording the Wedding Presents
Usual Model
Present Received | article | Sently | Sender's address | whos bought | thanks written
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Those appointed to receive and record Gifts
- Mrs Stakes
- Dorath & Naome
- Doris Martin
- Ruth Fambro
Alyce Monroe to write gifts
Information for Brides maids
- Pattern Butterich 4521
Bride size 12 | Bust 30 |
View A 34" 7and7/8 |
42" 7and5/8 |
50'' 6and1/8
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material 1/2 yd lace
notions needed
- 10" featherweight zipper
- 1/2" Ribbon seam binding
- 4 spools white silk thead
- 4 yds coste satins for slip
- Brides maids
- A. dress will be made for eight dollar a piece
- B. you furnial the material
- C. amount of material needed view B
size | Bust | 39" | 42" | 50"
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14 | 32 | 6 1/4 | 6 | 5 1/4
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16 | 34 | 6 1/2 | 6 | 5 1/4
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18 | 36 | 6 5/8 | 6 6/8 | 5/3/8
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20 | 38 | 6 7/8 | 4 1/4 | 5 5/8
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- D. Notions needed
- 10" zipper
- 1/2" ribbon Seam binding
- 1/4 yard 3/8" Elastic
- 3 spools thread
- E. Seamtress
- Mrs Williams
- 111 E 60th Street
- Fa 4 - 6214
The Information
- Mrs Allie Hanison appointed to be in change of the reception.
- Mrs Vivian Scott appointed as receiver for introduction to the Briadal party at the reception.
- Mrs Foster appointed to look after gifts.
- Necessary correspondence written April 4, 1950
Mrs Cummings | (Rochford)
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Aunt Rosa | Kansas City
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Rosa Scott | Kansas City
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Jean Young | California
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Marua Reny | gray
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Betty Thomas | Chicago
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Mrs Slaher
Ke6-3867
Other Seamtress
Other Seamtress
- Mrs Suttin
3150 Vernon
Ca5 7579
- Mrs Sutton
5908 Indiana (2nd fl)
Pl2-3959
- Mrs Johnson Wade
5959 Indiana
Plaza 2 - 7861
Important Notice
Save first and biggest slice of wedding cake for Alyce G Monroe
Kitchen Shower given at
Corila Byan house
2175 Geargia
Gary Indiana
Sunday May 28 4-7 P.M.
those present | Gift
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Coiata Bryan | Bun warmer
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Catherena McDonald | tater Baker 2732 Tennesee
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Charlene Willians | apron & kitchen towels
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Connie Hendan | salad bowl set
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Alica Bordow | Grater
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Naomi Stuchead | spoon, fork, spatacles
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Marian Perry | 4 piece Pyrex set
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Velma Edmonds | 3 pans
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Pauline Bradley | table cloth
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Lingerie Shower
Friday June 9, 1950
Rosenwald Social Room
name | Gifts
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1 Genestine | Gown
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2 Bridesmaids | Robe
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3 Alice Reffells | Sachet Iangess
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4 Telma Lois Edmonds | hankerchiefs
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5 Mrs Craddock | nylon Panties
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6 Verdis Johnson | Blue Slip nylon trimming
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7 Naome Staikland | acete half slip
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8 Geargetta Clarleston | white slip nylon trimming
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9 Myrtle Coffey | White Slip lace trimming
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10 Charlene | White and Pink panties
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11 mother | nege set
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12 Audrey Carter | white half slip
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13 Ruth Fambro | stocking
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14 Arninita | stocking
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15 Doris Martin | stocking
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16 Jean Bradley | stocking
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17 Connie Henfon | Stocking
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18 Delates Dean | Stocking
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19 Antainette Clavier | cotton half slip and camoisole
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20 Thelma Carheleies | white nylon panties
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Surpise Shower
Given at Mrs Patterson's home
1517 W. 113th place
Saturday June 10 1950
| name | Gift
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1 | Mr & Mrs Joth Truin | nylon slip
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2 | Mr & Mrs Wm R Harris | Hangers
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3 | Mr & Mrs Tracy Champion |
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4 | Mr Ed Barda & Daughther | Lunchean Set
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5 | Mrs Deasye Wright | Towel Set
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6 | Mr & Mrs E A Perry | Towels
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7 | Mrs Foster | Bosket glass holders
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8 | Mrs Black | snack n salad set
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9 | Mrs Cuhanks | Pillow cases
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10 | Mr & Mrs Leanad Gramms | seb app glass skis plates
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11 | Mrs Thelma Manow | white nylon panties
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12 | Mr & Mrs Parker | Leather Hat Box
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13 | Mrs Prisallo Walden | Leather Hat Box
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14 | Mrs Ola Murihead | Pillow cases
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15 | Mr & Mrs Spruel Brown | white towels
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16 | Mr & Mrs S. P. Cain | Hand towels
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17 | Mr & Mrs William A Harris | alum Pot
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18 | Mr & Mrs Mahone | pink gown
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19 | Mr & Mrs Sumerin | Bath Set
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20 | Mr & Mrs Charles Saulterrs | towels
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21 | Helen Harpers | Table mats
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22 | Mr & Mrs Grady | white Bath set
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23 | Mrs Rivers | white Bath set
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24 | Mrs Williams | white Bath set
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25 | Mr & Mrs H Iatterson | white Bath set
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26 | Mrs Craddock | Electric Clock
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27 | Mrs Dally Boone | Hose 3 pair
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28 | Mr & Mrs Tait | linen Guest towel
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29 | Mrs Virian Scott | Sactet lenguie set
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30 | Hazel Walton | salt & pepper shackers
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31 | Mrs Sussamw Overton | Juice containers
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32 | Mrs Julia Brown | coaster set
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33 | Mr & Mrs Leray Cole | Flaning towel set
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34 | Mrs Alica Edmunda | miwowes barlset waste
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35 | Mr & Mrs Starevson | Relish glass plate
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36 | Mrs Rayford | Relish glass plate
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37 | Mrs Jerry Mallary | glass Salal Bowl
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38 | Mr & Mrs Easter | Alumin grease strander, a salt & pepper Shaker
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39 | Mr & Mrs Andrew Boston | white nylon slip
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40 | Mr & Mrs John Rlane | white nylon slip
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Wedding Gifts
- Mrs Alrene King 6429 Inglside - 2 figurerines
- Mr & Mrs Taylar 51556 s. Parkway - His & Her Pillow cases
- J W Hamilton - Green towel set 6 pieces
- Herta Heidenrick 627 W Jefferson, Ottowa, Illinois - 3 handmade handerchiefs
- Mr & Mrs Rayford 5836 Michigan - check $3.00
- Mr & Mrs Emile Hamelin - towels
- Mr & Mrs George Selton Fowler - Porcelin valse
- Joe Shoidan - Hot Plate
- Gwehdolyn Duacand & family - white throw rug
- Jean Young - towels
- Mr & Mrs LeRay Johnson 6134 Rhodes - white Bed spread
- Mr & Mrs George Denison 7256 Eberhart -metal canseters
- Mr & Mrs Jefferson - sliver tray
- Mr & Mrs Coleembus 1 Margan Evergreen - glass swan & candleholder
- Letitia P Ballenger 5711 Calument - linen towels
- Mr & Mrs Charles W Peterson - towels set
- Mr & Mrs Sidney G Eaton - table cloth 7 piece set
- Mrs Lula Ecbals - silver pitcher
- Murial Campbell - 10 pc set yvelly Rose disher
- Mr & Mrs John Randoef 5164 So Park - 8 feathered glasses
- High Noon Club
- Mrs Sadie Black, Mildfeed Rairs, Anna Davis, Lula Geiger, Jersie Green, E Hamilton, Laura Mason, Maria Hedge, Mrythe Pierce, Edna Stitcl, Madge Wheole
- - 20 pc dish set floral pattern
- Hamy 0 Patterson & group - comforter & blanket
- Charles N Freeman 6118 Clanflor - large glass apple shape cookie container
- Mr & Mrs Harlis King - towels
- Robert & Mable - table cloth set
- Arnald Williams - picture of 2 dancers, 6 goflets
- Henretta Henderson - Alumin tray and suger & creamer
- Mr & Mrs J J Merrel - 4 pillow cases
- Franky Callins - white dresew scarf set
- Mrs Cole - Pearl Necklace & earrings
- Mr & Mrs Rusal Staker - electric clock
Added notes year 2007
The bride's mother is Mrs Alyce Martin Meine.
The bride's stepfather is Mr Otto Meine.
The bride's aunt is Della Hudson.
The bride's sisters are Mrs Gwendalyn Monroe, and Mrs Alyce Monroe. Douglas Monroe is Gwendalyn's huband. Ray Monroe is Alyce's huband.
The bride's bothers are Harold Arnett Martin and John Austin Martin.
The groom's father is Harry Burton Craddock SR
The groom's mother is Arabella Craddock.
The groom's sisters are Miss Mable Craddock, Mrs Ruth Fambro and Mrs Doris Martin.
Albert Fambro is Ruth's husband. Joseph Martin is Doris' huband.
The flower girls were the groom's nieces Karen Ashby and LaMage Fambro.
Best man, Benjamin C. Duster II is a grandson of historic Ida B. Wells Barnett. Ida was an anti-lynching newspaper crusader and a co-founder of th NAACP.
Rev. Harvey E. Walden was appointed pastor of Grant Memorial African Methodist Episcopal Church by the Bishop John A. Gregg on October 1947. Plans for an expansion program were formulated in November 1949. Rev. Walden and officers considered the purchase of properties at 4013-21 S. Drexel Boulevard. Grant moved to 4017 S Drexel Boulevard on May 7, 1950.
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